Suleman, Sonia and Poonam meet their new nanny, Elizabeth Dildar
By Mehwish Bhatti
Although it’s a very difficult to find a substitute for a lost mother or father we at the BPCA have tried to do this as best we can, for the darling children of Shama and Shahzad. In the media and charitable frenzy it is always difficult to assess what service to offer the three children of parents lost so brutally and cruelly in an unwarranted act of hatred – not that this type of hatred is ever condoned.
The parents Shama and Shazad were beaten to an inch of their lives and then burned alive, twitching their bodies in an attempt to cope with what must have been excruciating pain. Their only crime was to be Christians in a nation that despises the name of the faith, let alone the followers. In bonded labour they were unable to escape mob violence when their owner locked them in a room, until they paid his debt, which they of course could not. So for lack of £50 they sat in terror with their children awaiting their fate, praying their children would survive.
God has blessed the innocent young and tender children of Shama and Shahzad with safety and a chance to rebuild their lives. The scars of the murder of their parents will never leave them, especially the two eldest who watched the vicious attack that ensued before them. Even then God’s great mercy protected the two younger children both of whom were captured and nearly thrown in the fiery brick kiln too for good measure.
Several visits to the family have allowed me to pray and counsel the family. The maternal grandfather is currently the guardian for all the children. There is a five-way custody battle for the children as members of the family scrabble to gain custody of these children who are now worth their weight in gold and seen as an opportunity to escape acute poverty and deprivation. Can they be blamed for this? Not really they are as much victims of Pakistan’s poor governance as Shama and Shahzad. However it is essential for the well-being of these children that the children end up in the right environment, where they will be loved and cherished and not pawns in a grander scheme of wealth generation.
During our meeting with the grandfather of the children, he requested that we provide someone daily to help with the care of the children, cooking and cleaning for them, one that could also help with homework at home and early learning for the younger two. He also asked for us to provide schooling and associated costs for the children. A week after our appeal, we were approached by Michelle Chaudhry of the ‘Cecil and Iris Chaudhry Foundation’ who informed us that she had already started their schooling, so we set about selecting a live-out nanny, who would cook, clean, wash clothes and provide a maternal presence for the family. We have now set up the new service to coincide with the new school term in March, so that the two services for these children could be rendered more effective and collaboratively.
If you would like to donate towards the ongoing benevolent fund for these children, then please use these bank details:
Sort Code: 20-67-90
Any cheques should be made payable for the BPCA to our address; 57 Green Lane, Ilford, Essex, IG1 1XG.
With your support we hope to change the lives of millions of Christians in Pakistan.
Beautiful smiles: Poonam, Suleman and Sonia
Elizabeth will provide much needed love, stability and spiritual guidance.